Perceptions: What Do You See?

Are the Escalators Moving Up Or Down?

Answer: Neither.  They are not moving at all.  Things are not always what they appear to be.  Learn More.

The Unexpected

  • Juliane Koepcke was a German Peruvian high school senior student studying in Lima, intending to become a zoologist, like her parents. She and her mother, ornithologist Maria Kopecke, were traveling to meet with her father, biologist Hans-Wilhelm Koepcke, who was working in the city of Pucallpa. The airplane was struck by lightning during a severe thunderstorm and broke up in mid-air, disintegrating at 10,000 ft. Koepcke, who was seventeen years old, fell to earth still strapped into her seat.  From one perspective, who would have imagined that anyone could have survive such a crash?  The Rest Of The Story.  

“Heavenly” Message or Deadly Deception?

  • Many people today are unprepared to recognize Satan’s deceptions if they appear disguised as messages from heaven. Learn More. 

Little Girl Calls 911

Not only did she remain calm and communicate the issue to the 911 emergency dispatcher, this little girl provided a bit of humor in the process. 

The Power of a Paradigm Shift

The Power of a Paradigm Shift by Stephen R. Covey

I heard this story a while back and it really stuck with me. 

Perception is not always reality.  What you think to be true, may not actually be the truth.  Don't jump to conclusions or assume you know what is going on. 

Here is an excerpt from Stephen Covey's book "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People".  

"The Power of a Paradigm Shift
Perhaps the most important insight to be gained from the perception demonstration is in the area of paradigm shifting, what we might call the "Aha!" experience when someone finally "sees" the composite picture in another way. The more bound a person is by the initial perception, the more powerful the "Aha!" experience is. It's as though a light were suddenly turned on inside. 

Not all paradigm shifts are in positive directions. As we have observed, the shift from the Character Ethic to the Personality Ethic has drawn us away from the very roots that nourish true success and happiness. 

But whether they shift us in positive or negative directions, whether they are instantaneous or developmental, paradigm shifts move us from one way of seeing the world to another. And those shifts create powerful change. Our paradigms, correct or incorrect, are the sources of our attitudes and behaviors, and ultimately our relationships with others. 

I remember a mini-paradigm shift I experienced one Sunday morning on a subway in New York. People were sitting quietly -- some reading newspapers, some lost in thought, some resting with their eyes closed. It was a calm, peaceful scene. 

Then suddenly, a man and his children entered the subway car. The children were so loud and rambunctious that instantly the whole climate changed. 

The man sat down next to me and closed his eyes, apparently oblivious to the situation. The children were yelling back and forth, throwing things, even grabbing people's papers. It was very disturbing. And yet, the man sitting next to me did nothing. 

It was difficult not to feel irritated. I could not believe that he could be so insensitive as to let his children run wild like that and do nothing about it, taking no responsibility at all. It was easy to see that everyone else on the subway felt irritated, too. So finally, with what I felt was unusual patience and restraint, I turned to him and said, "Sir, your children are really disturbing a lot of people. I wonder if you couldn't control them a little more?" 

The man lifted his gaze as if to come to a consciousness of the situation for the first time and said softly, "Oh, you're right. I guess I should do something about it. We just came from the hospital where their mother died about an hour ago. I don't know what to think, and I guess they don't know how to handle it either." 

Can you imagine what I felt at that moment? 

My paradigm shifted. Suddenly I saw things differently, and because I saw differently, I thought differently, I felt differently, I behaved differently. My irritation vanished. I didn't have to worry about controlling my attitude or my behavior; my heart was filled with the man's pain. Feelings of sympathy and compassion flowed freely. "Your wife just died? Oh, I'm so sorry! Can you tell me about it? What can I do to help?" Everything changed in an instant. 

Many people experience a similar fundamental shift in thinking when they face a life-threatening crisis and suddenly see their priorities in a different light, or when they suddenly step into a new role, such as that of husband or wife, parent or grandparent, manager or leader. 

We could spend weeks, months, even years laboring with the Personality Ethic trying to change our attitudes and behaviors and not even begin to approach the phenomenon of change that occurs spontaneously when we see things differently. 

It becomes obvious that if we want to make relatively minor changes in our lives, we can perhaps appropriately focus on our attitudes and behaviors. But if we want to make significant, quantum change, we need to work on our basic paradigms. 

In the words of Thoreau, "For every thousand hacking at the leaves of evil, there is one striking at the root." We can only achieve quantum improvements in our lives as we quit hacking at the leaves of attitude and behavior and get to work on the root, the paradigms from which our attitudes and behaviors flow. 

Paradigms are inseparable from character. Being is seeing in the human dimension. And what we see is highly interrelated to what we are. We can't go very far to change our seeing without simultaneously changing our being, and vice versa. 

I'm sure there are people who, even suddenly understanding the true situation, would have felt no more than a twinge of regret or vague guilt as they continued to sit in embarrassed silence beside the grieving, confused man. On the other hand, I am equally certain there are people who would have been far more sensitive in the first place, who may have recognized that a deeper problem existed and reached out to understand and help before I did. 

Paradigms are powerful because they create the lens through which we see the world. The power of a paradigm shift is the essential power of quantum change, whether that shift is an instantaneous or a slow and deliberate process."

* Remember, things are not always what they appear to be!   Learn More

The Lost Day of History

Did you know there is a very important day that almost everyone has forgotten about? It's astounding that only a few people are aware of it, because it's one of the most significant days in all of human history! It's not only a day in the past, but the present and future. Furthermore, what happened on this neglected day can have a profound effect on your life.  Learn More

Hidden Truth

Much of the world, and even many Christians, have been confused by a series of myths that have managed to take firm root in churches around the world … and pass as legitimate Bible teachings. Some of these phony fables are fairly harmless, but others present “doctrines of devils” that can be devastating to one’s faith, concept of God, and eternal destiny (1 Timothy 4:1).  Learn More.

Adultery, Loyalty, and Love

The seventh commandment about adultery forbids not only acts of impurity, but also thoughts leading to it. Christ declared that the evil thought is as sinful as the actual unlawful deed.  
Learn More about the Lustful Look. 

Focus: What Do You See?

The Beautiful Young Lady (Picture Above)

I have taken a section from Stephen Covey’s book below: ”The word paradigm comes from the Greek. It was originally a scientific term, and is more commonly used today to mean a model, theory, perception, assumption, or frame of reference.In the more general sense, it’s the way we “see” the world — not in terms of our visual sense of sight, but in terms of perceiving, understanding, and interpreting.

We interpret everything we experience through these mental maps. We seldom question their accuracy; we’re usually even unaware that we have them. We simply assume that the way we see things is the way they really are or the way they should be.”

Look at the picture above.  

“Do you see a woman? How old would you say she is? What does she look like? What is she wearing? In what kind of roles do you see her?

You probably would describe the woman in the second picture to be about 25 years old — very lovely, rather fashionable with a petite nose and demure presence. If you were a single man you might like to take her out. If you were in retailing, you might hire her as a fashion model.

But what if I were to tell you that you’re wrong?

What if I said this picture is of a woman in her 60s or 70s who looks sad, has a huge nose, and certainly is no model. She’s someone you probably would help cross the street. Who’s right?

Look at the picture again. Can you see the old woman? If you can’t, keep trying.Can you see her big hook nose? Her shawl? If you and I were talking face to face, we could discuss the picture. You could describe what you see to me, and I could talk to you about what I see. We could continue to communicate until you clearly showed me what you see in the picture and I clearly showed you what I see.

Because we can’t do that, look at the image [above] and study the picture there and then look at this picture again.

Can you see the old woman now?

It’s important that you see her before you continue reading.

I first encountered this exercise many years ago at the Harvard Business School.

The instructor was using it to demonstrate clearly and eloquently that two people can see the same thing, disagree, and yet

both be right.

It’s not logical; it’s psychological.“

The exercise that
Stephen Covey provides is extremely fascinating, demonstrating the powerful reality that we all perceive things differently determined by influences around us, most of the time we aren’t even aware of it and think it’s the only way things can be.   

Learn More about A Different Perspective.

The Young Woman

The Older Woman

Taking A Second Look

The Replacement gODS

  • Replacement gods takes a look at the super hero phenomenon taking Hollywood by storm. Every culture since the dawn of time has told fantastical tales of heroes that have saved humanity from some unspeakable evil.   
    Superman, Batman, Thor, and many more make their appearances and unmask their true colors in this ever so clear evidentiary documentary. Replacement gODS should be the last Super Hero movie you ever watch!  

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Bible Quiz

  • Using your Bible, answer the following questions.  

    Do not rely on your memory.  As the Bible is the final authority, you must take the answer from the Bible verse (not from footnotes but from the text).  
    Take the Bible Quiz.

Important: Rapture Quiz

  • How sharp is your understanding of the rapture? Take this simple quiz and see how well you understand the coming of Christ and the Bible’s teaching of His return.   

Take the Rapture Quiz.

Bible Trivia

Did God Create the Devil?

Who is Satan?  Many believe he's merely a mythical figure.  Some believe that Satan is a ludicrous or loathsome object, misshapen, half animal and half human.  

Did God create the devil?  What are Satan's methods to hurt, deceive, discourage, and to destroy people?

Find out the answers, Read More. 

Are the Dead Really Dead?

Death just might be one of the most misunderstood subjects today.  

For many, death is shrouded in mystery and evokes dread, uncertainty, and hopelessness.  Others believe that their deceased loved ones are not dead at all, but instead live with them or in other realms.  

Millions are confused about the relationship between body, spirit, and soul.

What happens after death?  Why did God place a "flaming sword" around the tree of life? (Genesis 3:22-24).  Can the dead communicate with the living?

Find out the answers, Read More. 

Is the Devil in Charge of Hell?

Does God really keep the devil on His payroll as the chief superintendent of hell, measuring out the punishment of the lost?  

Nearly the entire world holds to a very unbiblical view about hell.  

Don't be fooled -- because what you think about hell affects what you think about God!  What is the truth about hell?  What does the biblical view about hell reveal about God?

Find out the answers, Read More 


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